Grab exactly what you need.
Don’t stress the rest.
Look, wedding planning doesn’t have to be confusing. In my humble-ish opinion, I think your first two (to three) priorities should be finding your date, finding your venue, and finding your photographer/videographer.
From there, let us guide you. Your vendors, if you find ones you love and trust, can lead you to the other vendors you need.
Don’t know how many hours you need? I can walk you through it. Want wedding vendors that you know support the LGBTQ+ community? I’ve got that too.